THE SOUL MATES OF YOUR PAST LIVES
We are here in the earth for the purpose of growing and developing our consciousness, and some of the people that we meet on our lives are more conducive to growth than others.
This is the main reason why we must choose carefully or companions and couples, because the impact is most powerful in a marriage relationship, where the union should be founded over the capacity to help each other growth, and a shared purpose in life.
As souls we experience our spiritual growth in consciousness through a series of lifetimes on the earth, in companionship with a particular group of souls, with whom we have close personal relationships.
Feeling a very strong attraction to someone we just met is a sign that we have found a soul mate, someone that we have loved before on a previous life, and this covers all kind of relationships and degrees of love.
Often, we are attracted to a particular person as our romantic couple, because we have had such a relationship at least once before. And marriage relationship is one great avenue for development, although this is not to say that important spiritual growth is impossible without marriage.
The essential nature of the soul mates is that those two people that have loved each other before, compliment each other. What one lacks, the other tends to bring out, and vice versa. And for their souls to grow, they only need to be themselves to help each other at the physical, mental, and spiritual levels.
THIS LIFE’S SOUL MATE
But to attract your soul mate you need first to work on your own soul, and this involves giving up your ego.
Instead of looking for the person that’s going to make you happy for ever, you must have a willingness to love your couple in a way that no one else can, and this will attract your soul mate as the honey attracts the bees.
Your love must be based on who you and your couple are at the soul level, and not on what you do, how much money you have, what you look like, how you think (or any other of the myriad of advices that love magazines give). You need to be able to perceive what’s lovable in everyone, without pre-requisites.
I think that many of those that can’t find their soul mates, know at a subconscious level the ego sacrifices which must be made, in order to bring their soul mate into their life, and that’s why they avoid the encounter.
There’s a great quote that I would like to share with you, because I agree with it:
“Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice.
It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved”
William Jennings Bryan
A soul mate is a person with whom you can communicate on the deepest level. When you meet that someone, that can touch and warm your deepest level, who just loves what you are and not what you do, you have found a soul mate.
But not everyone marries a soul mate. You can find a soul mate and only be his best friend, because as a matter of fact, the soul doesn’t care about sex or marriage, all that it wants is the company and the help to grow, that other like minded soul can give him.
YOUR FUTURE SOUL MATE
I know that all around us there’s a quest for THE soul mate, but forget that idea, there isn’t ONLY ONE soul mate in the world for each one of us, there are MANY!
And you can even start a soul mate relationship on this life, working both of you over your egos, and all that you need to accept, is that you both are lovable for what you are, that you are different, and that is precisely this difference what attracted you.
It could be terribly boring to get married with a mirror of your self. And it’s not so terrible to accept that you are different from one another, when you can realize that you are also different from EVERYONE ELSE, that you are both unique and meant to be happy together.
If you are single and would like to find your soul mate, once you become the person you should become-self-sufficient, self-confident and self-worthy-you will open start broadcasting the energy that will attract to you your soul mate.
Finding the soul mate seems to be everyone’s major pastime lately. But even if you find it, that does not guarantee a good marriage, you two still have to work together over your egos in order to grow your relationship. No one is suited exactly in the beginning.
And remember that this life is your future’s past life, you can start your story of love today, and enjoy it life after life from now on. Start being someone’s soul mate, and then you will find that the person that you love, is also YOUR soul mate.
If you need help to do it, you can use my CD: Pareja Ya! that’s a CD created to help you attract your soul mate.
Written by Dr. Roberto A. Bonomi
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